Polygny gives single black women hope they may get married

 

   


     So Im up looking up stuff and I stumble upon this flyer that read "Polygyny the best marriage solution for single black women? Omar Tyree y'all know the one that writes all the good books, like Fly Girls and Why good women love bad men. He said he believes polygamy is the solution for improving the black family. "People such as Michael Jordan can afford to have more than one household, with more than one wife. There could be more privileged black children if wealthy, successful, black men were able to marry more than one woman," he said.  I can say a lot about this however I will just say I disagree. But Im curious on how many people actually agree with this. Is this the solution will this solve all our problems? How many women would be ok with living this life?


     According to the US Census Bureau for every 100 black women there is 87 black men. Out of those 87 men how many of them are homosexuals,in jail or refuse to date black women? Riiiiiiiggggght. Shoot out of those 100 women how many of them are actually "good women" (im just saying)? Why is it that a white woman knows she will get married and a black woman hopes to get married? I don't know honestly I wish I had the answer I would be married right now. I date out side my race and I often get the "oh girl imma get me one too". I laugh cause what I have learned is most certainly a man will be a man regardless of his skin color trust me. I wish I knew where all the good black men were, shoot how about just a good man. *sigh 

   So what is Polygyny? here is the definition from Wikipedia: 

Polygyny (from neo-Greek: πολύ poly - "many", and γυνή gyny - "woman or wife")^[1] is a form of marriage in which a man has two or more wives at the same time.^[2] In countries where the practice is illegal, the man is referred to as a bigamist or a polygamist. It is distinguished from relationships where a man has a sexual partner outside marriage, such as a concubine, casual sexual partner, paramour, cohabits with a married woman or other culturally but not legally recognized secondary partner. Polygyny is the most common form of polygamy; the much rarer practice of polyandry is the form of marriage in which one woman has two or more husbands at the same time.^[3]

Help The Vbar Lady Get On The Shelf

   
 If you watch my YouTube channel you have seen my review on the Vbar.....I also shared it in my Feb faves video recently as well....The Vbar is a feminine hygiene wash that I stumbled on and decided I wanted to try.....I was not contacted by the owner Tanya to do the review. If you are a subscriber of my channel or follow me on twitter or facebook then you know I like to share great finds....

    The Vbar is one of my great finds since feminine hygiene is one of those touchy subjects. Allot of women go around with what I like to call "grown women" issues thinking they are alone. So I did my video to help other women try something that may help them. Right now you can only buy the Vbar online but I think it would be nice to be able to grab it from the store. So right now the Vbar is in a contest to be sold in Walmart as well as other drug stores like Walgreen, CVS etc......VOTE HERE!!!!  To give a honest vote I would hope you guys try it first. Also don't forget to like The Vbar on facebook and check out the website for others testimonials  http://www.thevbarlady.com/

if you missed my review?

   

Pretty LiL Heart

This is my song of the week I LOVE this song no explanation needed....

Robin Thicke "Pretty lil Heart"

Tell me who you with
Tell me where you were
Tell me did you go out
And start talking to some girl
I want to believe it
You know how hard I try
After all we've been through
It’s so hard to say goodbye

Whats hiding under your relaxers?

March 10, 2012 "BC"
6 months post her last relaxer

This weekend I helped my friend cut out her relaxer "BC" it had been six months since her last relaxer and she was ready. She was very nervous because with the two hair textures, her relaxed ends and the new growth, she thought her hair would be just a big ball of nappy mess. I knew for me self that wasn't true because of my own experience. I know that having two hair textures are hard to deal with, once you have more than a inch of new growth. What starts to happen is your relax ends will get tangled in your new growth causing very unmanageable knots and breakage. So that's usually the reason women give up going natural because they think it will be just so unmanageable. They never get to see whats under the relaxer I'm glad my friend did it and was able to see her beautiful hair texture.

Soon as I put her under the water I seen her curls no product on her hair or anything. She thought her hair was just "nappy" she had naturally curly hair. A whole head full of shiny curls just waiting to burst out...Not that you should go natural just for curly hair. However its important that we understand our hair and exactly what we have and working with. My friend has been relaxing her hair so long she never new her hair was naturally curly and that is the beauty of going natural to me. Its going to take her some time to get use to it but I'm sure she wont have a problem with it since she can rock anything. This time next year her fro is going to be as long as mine if not longer and those curls are going to be banging. March 10, 2012 marks the day of Tiffany "BC" I think I'm more excited for her than she is. I wish her the best on her journey as a natural and her "TWA" is perfect for the summer.

her curls

She did it!!!!

Iggy Azalea "Pu$$y" and "My World"

     Iggy Azalea born  Amethyst Kelly, is an Australian  song writer and rapper. Her flow is a contradiction of here appearance. She looks like just another white pop girl until you hear her rap. She raps very raw and hard core her flow (IMO) is very nice. Some idiot said this yamp was the next Tupac lets all pray for that fool. Anyway its hard for me to get past the fact she seems like just another gimmick. I mean really LiL Kim, Foxy have been doing the sexy look with hardcore rap flows XXL

     So what makes her different she is white and from Australia point blank oh and she is yet another infamous white girl with a fat ass. These little American suburban white girls are gonna eat her up. T.I has hoped on her band wagon she is officially apart of the grand hustle team, shit can you blame him? She will sale in America and internationally but I bet my bottom dollar she will not win over hip hop as a Lady MC. One thing I know about hip hop lovers is we smell bullshit and we don't like gimmicks. You see how the hip hop community pretty much disowned my girl Nicki Minaj. I guess we will just have to see though but I know I'm right. Shit am I right? She is the first female MC to ever make the cut for XXL freshman class. I cant front I Like her two songs Pussy and My World.

Click to Hear Her Song "PUSSY"

My own worst enemy.....

This song puts me in a god mood lol although the lyrics are a little mellow dramatic. Buuuuuut it soooooo describes my personality when I party hard and forget about my troubles. This is what everyone goes thru after a night of partying hard and waking up with a hangover. It also reminds me of my high school years. This is my song of the week I hope you guys enjoy xoxo.

Lit

 "My own worst enemy"

"Please tell me, please tell me why?
My car is in the front yard
And I'm sleeping with my clothes on
I came in through the window last night
And you're gone, gone"

workflow :-/ (I hate my job)

this is me at work lol

    The job I have requires that I sale services meaning I work in sales and customer service. These two occupations are the hardest jobs IMO... Usually people who are working these type of jobs (unless its their own business) do these jobs as a means to an end....I am not a sales rep I can do customer service very well. But selling things that are literally bullshit is what makes this job a living hell. I know y'all are like well if you don't like to sale why did you apply for the job? I know right how bout a year and a half ago when I took the job we were not required to sale to keep our jobs. I mean we had to sale but customer service was the main focus and drive. I know y'all are like well why don't you just find another job? Well that has proven to be mission impossible. I don't wanna dwell much longer on how much I hate my job, lets move on to what imma do about it.

     Its simple I will just pray about it, I have had jobs where the people I worked with were the reason I hated my job. I was bitter and angry at that job I was always feeling like I had to fight at my work place. God got me threw that with prayer and taking ownership of my own actions. I was able to turn my attitude around and find the job I have now. So that alone reminds of how big of a blessing this job actually is. I remember praying that I would get this job, so I will pray for God to improve my work ethic at this job. I actually work with great people, its just the job duties it self that I have a hard time doing. But since I am grown I have decided that I will put my big girl pants on and perform at this job as its required of me. I'm sure that has allot to do with why I find this job so horrible. Its because I am not performing and not meeting the requirements.

     So this time I will yet again be calling on God to help me out. This time the prayers will be for him to allow me to accept the things I can control. Take ownership of my own actions and understand that nothing worth having comes easy. I will remind myself to remember I asked for this job and God would not have given it to me if he didn't feel I deserved it, To anyone working a job they hate just remember what you had before. then think of when you were praying God to bless you with a new job. take ownership of your own actions and pray about it he will guide you trust me. Y'all be blessed most importantly always stay positive.

 

This is how I wanna look at work