Interracial Dating/Miscegenation: Marriage or sexual relations between individuals of different races...aka Jungle Fever.....
I get asked allot how is it to date a white man....I'm wondering is it supposed to be different? If so I need a refund....for some reason people assume that dating a white man some how implies your dating better....where this idea comes from idk....but I will say this it has nothing to do with my mans race that I'm dating "better" trust me when I say this its the man not the skin color....I hear allot of women saying I'm going to get me a white man...as if this will solve her problems with men....I go thru the same exact things with this white man that I went thru with black men...so I think you'll find its a man thing not a race thing....
I have witnessed many side eyes from surprisingly black people other races don't seem to care at all.....anytime this has happen it has either been a older black couple or a young black man.....I remember being in Walmart with my boyfriend and his black guy with his girlfriend cuts me in line......not only did he cut in front of me but he turns around to stare my boyfriend down like he was daring my boyfriend to say something....I'm like dude its the express lane and you only got one item....you can go in front its not a big deal....Most recently I posted a video of me and Lee on my YouTube channel doing a boyfriend tag....Some guy again black made a comment calling me a "sell out white mans black bitch".....now me being the lady I am lol deleted the comment and blocked the person....the person goes and makes a new YouTube channel just so he could come back and comment again....Really is it that serious? when we are out and about all stares come from black guys.....I honestly don't have a clue on why they act so pressed....If you guys wont me to make some big parade on how much I love black men its not going to happen.....I don't need to run around screaming my love for black men....just to make y'all happy....I'm a black woman and it should be clear as day...who I chose to love should be least of a black mans worries....
I don't know why other people date out side their race....I can only speak for myself its called falling and love with the person and not their looks,color,social status,money etc.....I don't remember society ever caring about who I dated until I started dating a white man lol.....
let me end with this...I know its easy to assume that all black men are dogs...often times we see other races relationships and it seems as if they don't have the same issues we have with our men....deadbeats,jail birds,abusers,drug users/dealers etc.....I haven't done a study on this or anything...but its has been proven that its the person...a man will be a man....its nothing wrong with wanting to date outside your race...just make sure your doing for the right reasons....what are the right reasons you ask? LOVE!!!!!!
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