Self Awarness

     You know that moment when a infant looks in a mirror or see their reflection and realize hey that's me. Psychologist call this moment "The Mirror Stage". That's the moment when your baby realize she/he is a individual and they are separate from mommy and daddy. This is a big step in the infant developmental its needed its very vital that the child understands they are individuals. When a child does not hit that stage we instantly start to think something is wrong with them. So we take them to the doctor see a specialist or whatever because they say the child should hit this point 6-18 months. What do you do when an adult has no self awareness? Is there some type of book for that or a specialist? 

     Self Awareness is huge to me and I for one can not stand a grown ass person that has no clue on how they "move" in this world. I use the term "move" often and this simply means how you interact with others and how you handle things and take accountability for your actions. We all know a person that is constantly offending others and when you bring it to their attention the first thing out their mouth is "oh my bad I didn't mean to offend you". I often  say things sometimes that comes off blunt and/or harsh this is something I know about myself. So im never surprised if someone takes what say as rude I don't make excuses for it I simply apologize and move forward. Because I am grown I also know that everything I say is meant to provoke a point and emotion. Rather it be to make you laugh,cry,mad my words always have an intent, so I don't act like I didn't know I would get a certain reaction after I said something. It baffles me when an adult goes around saying abusive things to people constantly and acts like its everyone else problem. So again where do adults go when they have no self awareness? 

Actions have consequences...first rule of life. And the second rule is this: You are the only one responsible for your own actions. - Holly Lisle