it aint cheating if your not married 0_o

ok, so i know alot of yall shaking yah heads and fingers reading the title of this blog....i got the idea for this blog from a radio show i was listening to, on my way to work a few days back. they was basically talking about how women dont care about the wedding ring they still will try to "mac" <----who still says that word lmao. the question was thrown out does being bf/gf really matter does it take you off the market. the response was surprising everybody agreed your up for grabs until your married. now at first i was like hell to the NO (in my Whitney Houston voice)....but after a very emotional convo with my current situation i realized he aint my husband and if he cheats what can i do but be mad and move on.

At the end of the day its all premarital sex how can you expect to live happily ever after when god aint in it? im not saying it wont work out im not saying yall wont end up being old and gray and in love. im saying the chances of that happening is slim to none. i mean look at your mother is she still with your dad im guessing hell no. why waste your life waiting for a man to finish living to become his wife why not now? right cause he aint ready. i just think now speaking from my current situation its impossible to think i have the right to ask a man to only be with me but i aint telling him he gotta marry me. its stupid when you think about it why not just not have sex you know why cause he wouldnt stick around. and to be honest is that really a person you wanna be with.

im not lecturing at all honey i gotta sweep my porch before sweeping yours just sharing my insight on this thing called love. im learning and imma be honest i dont want my man sleeping with no body else. our main problem now is facebook thats a whole other blog lmao....but yea i dont wanna just be his main i wanna be his only his wife one day ;-)....but right now if he cheats all i can do is be mad talk shit and cry so yea do i agree with the notion he aint yours until your married. i mean if im working towards living thru god then yea i agree 100%.....