I'm wondering why does it take so much for a woman to tell another woman she looks nice? it sure doesn't take much to make a slick joke or to mug the hell out of her? we all are guilty of this now i myself i have no hang ups about complimenting any one. But i must say i will make a joke if i notice someone not looking their best. You know with the she know she wrong for that or her shoes are cute but them feet are busted. Now this may all be true but my point is why cant we say she looks nice or not say nothing at all regardless if we think she looks a mess. Exactly because we are naturally messy creatures why why why ladies? i think if we focused more on lifting each other up than trying to prove who the baddest bitch is we would be so far head of the game. You know its rare to to see a black woman doing her thing now although its plenty there just isn't enough. When a black woman is HBIC she is a bitch and we naturally begin the hating. I honestly believe that if we didn't tear each other down so much then it would be allot more HBIC. im sure yall heard of the crab syndrome you put alot of crabs in a bucket and soon as one gets to the top they all pull him back down sound familiar? i thought it would.
again im not tryna talk down on us just asking why? i heard something funny a chick i watch on YouTube by the name of AARONE99 was like when women get dressed we don't get dressed for the men we do it for the women. she was saying how we try to out due all the women in the club or building. and i was thinking to myself how many of yall be up in the club in yall Easter best standing in one spot looking hella stuck up. i started laughing she was sooooo right yall didn't get dressed to come have a good time and let lose with yall fellow peers. yall came up in the spot to look good and to talk about all the women that don't look as good as you or so you think. mean while the chick with no fashion sense is having a ball kicking it NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO YO LOOKING ASS. lmao im pretty sure you can remember her outfit from head to toe but that outfit that you was looking so fly in honey i bet you couldn't pay her a million bucks to recall yo fit. lmao i digress, all i wanna say is would it kill you to just compliment a sista when you see her in the streets? and if it will then can you keep yo mouth closed regardless of what you think about her hair,fit,shoes,nail etc? we got so many other things holding us back to have to worry about another sis!
My views from behind the brush
6/10/11
a little testimony 1
i just had this urge to blog for those out there wanting to give up. i want to encourage you to stay strong and dont give up tuff times dont last always. i know, it sounds good right? well i just wanna share a little insight on my life. i didnt have college grads for parents like most of us my parents were young parents and high school drop outs. i grew up in what some people call a poor home but i couldn't tell looking back now yea we was poor. so statistics say i should of been either on drugs,teenage mom, jail, uneducated or dead right?
well i cant say i did anything special i can say god has truly had his hand in my life i mean he really looks out for me. i moved out of my parents at 18 didnt know anything about credit or life so yea i have made some bad choices but god has seen me thru some mess yall. i have always been a person to believe you gotta start from the ground up so i have always set little goals to achieve. i swear yall i pray for every single thing thats how i get it. i promise if i want something i pray i do the leg work and god gets it done. for example i worked at walmart wasnt making enough to support myself so i asked good to find me a better paying job. i was on my hands and knees to god every day asking please lord i need a better job. i kept working and guess what i got a job at Bank Of America. now the catch was this job was in Kansas at the time i didnt have a car but guess what a bus went right in front of it. i said god since you gave me this job imma ride the bus until you send me a car. i rode the bus to in from work rain, sleet or snow for exactly a year straight and guess what a week from the day i started i got my first car. Now someone tried to steal my car they wasnt able to i wrecked my car no car insurance and it was a hit and run guess what god replaced that car a 2002 with a 2005.
i honestly believe its soley because what god has for me is for me and cant no one take it once i claim it. so im saying to all you that want to give up please don't. keep praying and what god has for you will come. i prayed for a job god said ok tiff i got a job for you but you gotta work for it. that bus ride was 2hrs long so i spent a total of four hours on a city bus every day commuting back and fourth to work. i got a car a week form the day i started that job. then about five months later someone tried to take it but they couldn't cause god gave me that car. someone ran a stop sign and wrecked it guess what god replaced it the next day even tho i had no INSURANCE. i could go on and on how god comes thru but im sure you get my point. he does answer but you gotta be willing to put in the leg work he isnt just going to give it you.
well i cant say i did anything special i can say god has truly had his hand in my life i mean he really looks out for me. i moved out of my parents at 18 didnt know anything about credit or life so yea i have made some bad choices but god has seen me thru some mess yall. i have always been a person to believe you gotta start from the ground up so i have always set little goals to achieve. i swear yall i pray for every single thing thats how i get it. i promise if i want something i pray i do the leg work and god gets it done. for example i worked at walmart wasnt making enough to support myself so i asked good to find me a better paying job. i was on my hands and knees to god every day asking please lord i need a better job. i kept working and guess what i got a job at Bank Of America. now the catch was this job was in Kansas at the time i didnt have a car but guess what a bus went right in front of it. i said god since you gave me this job imma ride the bus until you send me a car. i rode the bus to in from work rain, sleet or snow for exactly a year straight and guess what a week from the day i started i got my first car. Now someone tried to steal my car they wasnt able to i wrecked my car no car insurance and it was a hit and run guess what god replaced that car a 2002 with a 2005.
i honestly believe its soley because what god has for me is for me and cant no one take it once i claim it. so im saying to all you that want to give up please don't. keep praying and what god has for you will come. i prayed for a job god said ok tiff i got a job for you but you gotta work for it. that bus ride was 2hrs long so i spent a total of four hours on a city bus every day commuting back and fourth to work. i got a car a week form the day i started that job. then about five months later someone tried to take it but they couldn't cause god gave me that car. someone ran a stop sign and wrecked it guess what god replaced it the next day even tho i had no INSURANCE. i could go on and on how god comes thru but im sure you get my point. he does answer but you gotta be willing to put in the leg work he isnt just going to give it you.
6/6/11
let these basic rat ass bitches hate yea i said it RAT!
ok so whats up with all these hating ass bitches? I mean y'all just came out the closet huh really....im wondering why is it that you bitches make it a point to speak on what another person got going. to be honest with you black people are the most jealous race i know. we will hate on a person rob them and even kill them just cause they got what you dont.
Someone in boxed me on fb i will keep them anonymous but she was basically saying she is natural too but she wears weaves because she is worried about what people will say. Ok my advice fuck what these bitches gotta say. girl let em hate you gotta be you and love being you its called self esteem because it has to come from you. Its not called friends esteem, coworker esteem, the nigga around the corner esteem...its SELF esteem....esteem of yo mutha fucking self...let these basic bitches do what basic bitches do....its things about me that i dont like that i want fixed for example my teeth. but do you think imma stop smiling just cause i got gaps fuck no. yea imma get them fixed but when im ready and not cause of what someone else considers pretty...
Life is too short to not be loving your self the way god made you honey...youll spend a lifetime fixing what people dont like about you. i have learned that people will accept you when you accept your self. im not saying you shouldnt put effort into your appearance im saying dont sweat the small stuff. if you wanna wear a weave wear it but dont be covering up your hair cause you worried about the next mans thoughts. my hair is nappy its not naturally curly its wavy and even with oils my hair looks dry. this is not the idea of what good hair means in the black community. but do you think i give a rats ass honey i know im pretty and my confidence just adds to my overall the shitness yea i said it the shitness.....i know i got it going on with my naps and gaps honey i dont care who agrees.
Someone in boxed me on fb i will keep them anonymous but she was basically saying she is natural too but she wears weaves because she is worried about what people will say. Ok my advice fuck what these bitches gotta say. girl let em hate you gotta be you and love being you its called self esteem because it has to come from you. Its not called friends esteem, coworker esteem, the nigga around the corner esteem...its SELF esteem....esteem of yo mutha fucking self...let these basic bitches do what basic bitches do....its things about me that i dont like that i want fixed for example my teeth. but do you think imma stop smiling just cause i got gaps fuck no. yea imma get them fixed but when im ready and not cause of what someone else considers pretty...
Life is too short to not be loving your self the way god made you honey...youll spend a lifetime fixing what people dont like about you. i have learned that people will accept you when you accept your self. im not saying you shouldnt put effort into your appearance im saying dont sweat the small stuff. if you wanna wear a weave wear it but dont be covering up your hair cause you worried about the next mans thoughts. my hair is nappy its not naturally curly its wavy and even with oils my hair looks dry. this is not the idea of what good hair means in the black community. but do you think i give a rats ass honey i know im pretty and my confidence just adds to my overall the shitness yea i said it the shitness.....i know i got it going on with my naps and gaps honey i dont care who agrees.
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