Can u just say im wearing these heels damn....why you mad?

I'm wondering why does it take so much for a woman to tell another woman she looks nice? it sure doesn't take much to make a slick joke or to mug the hell out of her? we all are guilty of this now i myself i have no hang ups about complimenting any one. But i must say i will make a joke if i notice someone not looking their best. You know with the she know she wrong for that or her shoes are cute but them feet are busted. Now this may all be true but my point is why cant we say she looks nice or not say nothing at all regardless if we think she looks a mess. Exactly because we are naturally messy creatures why why why ladies? i think if we focused more on lifting each other up than trying to prove who the baddest bitch is we would be so far head of the game. You know its rare to to see a black woman doing her thing now although its plenty there just isn't enough. When a black woman is HBIC she is a bitch  and we naturally begin the hating. I honestly believe that if we didn't tear each other down so much then it would be allot more HBIC. im sure yall heard of the crab syndrome you put alot of crabs in a bucket and soon as one gets to the top they all pull him back down sound familiar? i thought it would.

again im not tryna talk down on us just asking why? i heard something funny a chick i watch on YouTube by the name of AARONE99 was like when women get dressed we don't get dressed for the men we do it for the women. she was saying how we try to out due all the women in the club or building. and i was thinking to myself how many of yall be up in the club in yall Easter best standing in one spot looking hella stuck up. i started laughing she was sooooo right yall didn't get dressed to come have a good time and let lose with yall fellow peers. yall came up in the spot to look good and to talk about all the women that don't look as good as you or so you think. mean while the chick with no fashion sense is having a ball kicking it NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO YO LOOKING ASS. lmao im pretty sure you can remember her outfit from head to toe but that outfit that you was looking so fly in honey i bet you couldn't pay her a million bucks to recall yo fit. lmao i digress, all i wanna say is would it kill you to just compliment a sista when you see her in the streets? and if it will then can you keep yo mouth closed regardless of what you think about her hair,fit,shoes,nail etc? we got so many other things holding us back to have to worry about another sis!