Basically they try to talk as if there is some rule book to being natural....some go as far to try an tell you how you should dress....really i didn't sign up for all that....i just wanna embrace my naps without your input please and thank you....for example apparently when you are natural there are some ingredients you are not suppose to use...but I'm like wait a min when my grandmother use to do my hair all she used was grease in water...some naturals believe if you dye your hair then your not natural....basically they think putting any kind of chemical in your hair that alters its natural state is a big no no...and i just don't agree if that's the case then we shouldn't put anything in our hair right...because when i put some grease up in my head....I'm trying to alter my hairs natural dry ass state lol...is this a no no? my hair doesn't naturally wash it self....i got throw some shampoo in my head to alter it naturally dirty state....ok and what about deodarant? i can name alot of things that alter my natural state....but im sure yall get my point
Whats up with this natural vs relaxers crap too...honey these "Super Naturals" act like militants for real (insert my loud laugh here)...no disrespect to any of my Jehovah Witnesses but that's how they act....all ways giving out crap and condemning you for not following their hair bible....I did not know there was such a thing I'm still looking for this rule book/bible for the naturals....i know sooooo many relaxed sistas with hair down they backs...thick and full of volume and bounce...relaxers were created by a black woman with the intent to help us manage our hair...and honestly just like any beauty regimen is you don't take the precautions when applying a relaxer of course your hair will fall out.....news flash that's with anything...now do i think relaxed hair is the healthiest hair....no but that's my opinion......
All jokes a side ladies embrace you...don't trip off your hair...relaxed or natural just remember why you decided to go natural...don't do it for anyone else but for you....and beware of the "Super Naturals"...don't let these crazy people tell you anything but where to get some good products for your hair....rather you press, relax, rocking a fro, dreads, a fade, shoot even you lace front ladies...heck even you hard hair style wearing ladies....oh the heck with it even you ten colors and five hair styles on one head ladies lmao....embrace who you are and excuse my french but f#@k the rest do you boo!....as long as you are combing your hair then that's all that matters...
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Peace Love and Natural. Get it girl.
Lol thanks honey! R u a natural?
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