I Get Out!!!!

I get out, I get out of all your boxes
I get out, you can't hold me in these chains
I'll get out
Father free me from this bondage
Knowin' my condition
Is the reason I must change

I was having a very convo with one of my home girls.....this particular person opinion/advice i listen too....again she is not that older than me....but she is older so in my opinion she a little wiser....anyway she noticed a pair of earrings in my ear...and she stated that my whole style is changing....now today I'm standing in my bedroom and i show my bf my hair.....i just got it braided....he made the statement where is Tiffany? Which have inspired this blog.....


I have gone my whole life being this "ghetto girl" allot of people may have their own opinion of who i am......when i do things i can assure its by choice.....imma break somethings down for all my ladies reading....people fear the unknown...meaning when someone cant put you in a box....you either become 1. a prototype or 2. Ridiculed....people have to be able to label you....and i just chose not to be put in a box I'm claustrophobic (self diagnosed lol).....but for real i cant stand to feel closed in.....i love to learn and educate myself...and sometimes after reading our watching something my opinion about things can change....not to mean I'm easily persuaded....i decided to go natural not because its a fad but because i literally woke up one day and said no more perms.....i didn't realize so many people were natural until now.....so don't think I'm just on the bandwagon...

let me just get to the point.....i refuse to be put in a box...or feel i have to be a certain way just because I'm "black".....i love life i love people...i love learning about cultures other than my own.....in my opinion God did not create race...he created Man Kind....like my first point people need to put you in a box in order to justify actions...I'm not tryna get all sista soldier on yah....i have soooo much i can say on this topic but i want y'all to listen to my girl Lauryn Hill song "I Get Out"...she sums up all my thoughts on this joint