ok so i just got back from having a "drink" with my wonderful coworkers....and we was laughing and joking having a blast ( im laughing out loud) thinking about are crazy convos....neway well this blog is just going to be a breif thought i had while driving home...
i sit and i sometimes wonder why do us women think we have to put up with bull shit from these men...i mean really a man can cheat on yo ass, beat yo head in every damn day, have multiple kids on you...and we will stay by his side to the very end i don't get it...i say this because i was once a woman that thought i had to be this punk ass so called ride or die chick...until i had a news flash and realized he ain't riding for me so i had to bounce...honey when i say i been thru it its cause i have i only speak from what i know......im not going to blame my self esteem issue on a man but i was in a relationship for a very long time...i was cheated all the damn time i came to a point that i felt i couldn't keep a man happy....so yea i became insecure and that shit travels from relationship to relationship.....im always thinking yea you fucking with this bitch or that bitch...i honestly believe had i not stayed in a relationship and accepted cheating then i wouldn't think cheating is something all men do.
i just want us women to stand up and know you do not got to hold these grown ass men down fuck em yea i said it fuck these no good ass men...where the hell are their mothers call her and let her do her mother duties and hold her bum ass son down...i refuse to allow another human being to hurt me so bad that i give up on love...i wouldn't let another man think that i will ever do anything for him that he cant do for his self...meaning stop letting these men come move up in yo house....ugh ladies yall know what im saying break up with these no goods....idk just i thought i had while driving why do we as women put up with so much knock knock he ain't the only man in the world....
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