refried beans!

When a woman wants a man or she is in "love" with a man she will do anything for him. That's the beauty of being a woman we loyal, however we can be blinded. A man will let you know if he wants to be with you or not. We all have done it I know I have, stayed in a relationship that I was clearly the only one apart of it. See a man can tell you as well as show you that he not tryna be committed to just one person. So us as women accept the title as "friend" but will play the role of girl friend. And some of us will stay in a messed up relationship simply because we got a title "girlfriend" "baby mama" "wife" but we playing the role of the sideline.....lets start with the ladies that have the "friend" title but play the girlfriend role. Its simple a man tells you he is not ready for a relationship or a girlfriend. But that's not what you want so you accept any title as long as you can be something. You'll still be intimate with him and jump to his side when he needs you. Why cause in your mind you're thinking this will show him that your a good woman and when he finally does want a relationship he'll choose you. And finally you got the chicks that are the "main" but know damn well they are not the only. That accept the fact their man is unfaithful. Accept the role as a side bitch because they got the title. I mean we all have done it. I know I've played the fool but at what point do you say enough. Stop playing the victim at what point do you own up to the fact that you accepted the role the man gave you. Everybody knows a man is happy when you play your role but you're title and role must match. Stop being his girlfriend when he clearly calls you his friend. Stop allowing him to treat you like a side bitch then turn around and try to call you his wifey,girl or whatever. Basically stop being in these relationships that only consist of you and the man that don't want you like that.