Lights

Thought I would share another song with my blog family...I know I haven't been blogging as much as I used too...considering I have a lot to blog about. I mean I did pack up everything and move 1,200 miles away from my family. I have really just been trying o get settled in to my new city. You can find me on instagram,twitter,facebook and YouTube @yahgirltiffy.....In the mean time here is another song i have been loving hope you enjoy it as well....

Ellie Goulding "lights"

I had a way then losing it all on my own

I had a heart then but the queen has been overthrown

And I'm not sleeping now the dark is too hard to beat

And I'm not keeping now the strength I need to push me.....

When I See You!!!

This song came on while I was rolling through my new home town "Tampa" today. I had to turn the radio all the way up. I love the hell out of this song and of course Fantasia is my girl. I had to look thru my CD collection and find my Fantasia album. This song is just what I needed to hear since im currently in a long distance relationship and miss my babe dearly.

Fantasia: "when i see you"

I scribble X and O's in my notebook
Checking how my hair and my nails look
I feel myself in the zone
I get nervous when you call, so I say I'm not home
I see your face when I hear my favorite song
Should I send an e-mail at home?
You're the #1 topic on the phone
I wonder if you know, or do yo have a clue? Yeah....

Help April!!!! (muffinismylovers)

omg I feel so sad for her...yall youtube is how a lot of people are able to get their dreams off the ground...rather it be rapping,singing,dancing acting or whatever.....she was able to get her business started from yoube she had over 500,000 faithful subscribers and supporters and some hater went and took it all away. go to her page and sign the petition to get the site that hacked her account block and banned....Her Facebook!!!

HELLO THIS MESSAGE IS TO ALL OF APRILS FRIENDS AND SUBSCRIBERS.. APRIL NEEDS YOUR HELP ! HER YOUTUBE AND WEBSITE HAS BEEN HACKED.. IM HER WEBMASTER AND I WAS ABLE TO FIND OUT INFORMATION REGARDING THE HACKERS OF COURSE WE ALL NO SHE WAS HACKED BY A GROUP CALLED clainvv3.com. I STRONGLY SUGGEST THAT YOU DO NOT VISIT THIS WEBSITE. BUT I WAS ALSO ABLE TO FIND OUT WHO IS HOSTING THEM. IN ORDER TO GET THEIR WEBSITE SHUT DOWN SHE NEEDS FOR ALL OF YOU TO GO TO THIS LOCATION AND FILE A COMPLAINT IN HER BEHALF GO HERE ANDhttps://www.cloudflare.com/abuse/

AS LISTED ABOVE PUT IN THE COMPLAIN THE WEBSITE NAME CLAINVV3 AND THE NAMESERVERS THAT THERE WEBSITE IS RUNNING FROM IS NS11.DOMAINCONTROL.COM-NS12.DOMAINCONTROL.COM. HELP US TO GET THEM SHUT DOWN.. HELP APRIL!!!!! HIT THE LIKE BUTTON IF YOUR GOING TO GIVE HER YOUR SUPPORT. THANKS FROM HER WEBMASTER AND APRIL.

I am NOT a comedian!!!!

     Since I could remember I have always been able to make people laugh. Not just a little cute smile I'm talking the kinda a laugh where your ribs feel like they are about to crack. I can make babies all the way up to the old folk,white,black or yellow laugh it doesn't matter. It's nothing I do on purpose I just say things exactly the way I see them. With that being said everyone has always said to me I should be a actor or comedian. I however do not want to be a stand up comic because I don't tell jokes write jokes or think out punch lines.

     I'm naturally funny yes sometimes intentionally but its never premeditated. I guess what I'm tryna say is I thank everyone for believing in me and seeing a talent in me and wanting me to pursue it. However my passion is motivational speaking,writing,fashion,cooking,dancing and thrifting. I know my personailty will get me along way but I really want to be a movement for my ladies. I know I have something about me that inspires other women to do what I do,not saying I have followers not saying that at all. I love uplifting ladies and being supportive I'm with the "girl power" movement. I thank every one for believing in me but I am not a comedian its not my passion. What is my passion? Stay tuned!!!

 

What is Mine can't Be taken!

     I moved 1,200 miles away from my loved ones not because I was running from my life or tryna change my life. I simply have a dream to be successful and to be able to travel the world and experience life for all that its worth.  I am one the understands opportunities and this was one that I couldn't afford to pass up. With that being said I almost let the chance slip right through my fingers because of  a man, not just any man the love of my life. I was willing to put some one else before me just because I loved them and was loyal. Three years in a relationship and what I put into the relationship I was not getting back. I remember when I first decided I was moving away and the reason I stayed. The promises that were made the begging and crying that I knew was just for show......hopefully one day I am able to speak about this more....but ladies follow your dreams!!!!

     

Self Awarness

     You know that moment when a infant looks in a mirror or see their reflection and realize hey that's me. Psychologist call this moment "The Mirror Stage". That's the moment when your baby realize she/he is a individual and they are separate from mommy and daddy. This is a big step in the infant developmental its needed its very vital that the child understands they are individuals. When a child does not hit that stage we instantly start to think something is wrong with them. So we take them to the doctor see a specialist or whatever because they say the child should hit this point 6-18 months. What do you do when an adult has no self awareness? Is there some type of book for that or a specialist? 

     Self Awareness is huge to me and I for one can not stand a grown ass person that has no clue on how they "move" in this world. I use the term "move" often and this simply means how you interact with others and how you handle things and take accountability for your actions. We all know a person that is constantly offending others and when you bring it to their attention the first thing out their mouth is "oh my bad I didn't mean to offend you". I often  say things sometimes that comes off blunt and/or harsh this is something I know about myself. So im never surprised if someone takes what say as rude I don't make excuses for it I simply apologize and move forward. Because I am grown I also know that everything I say is meant to provoke a point and emotion. Rather it be to make you laugh,cry,mad my words always have an intent, so I don't act like I didn't know I would get a certain reaction after I said something. It baffles me when an adult goes around saying abusive things to people constantly and acts like its everyone else problem. So again where do adults go when they have no self awareness? 

Actions have consequences...first rule of life. And the second rule is this: You are the only one responsible for your own actions. - Holly Lisle